quiet

My Illustration Friday attempt for "quiet".

If there are sounds, particularly words, coming at me from anywhere else (i.e. TV, music, radio, people talking), the words I'm trying to read in a book escape to go and play with the others. They get lost and I absorb none of them. I need quiet to read.

(I've hidden some Haruki Murakami books in my illo this week; I always marvel at how he writes quietness into his books so beautifully.)

i am not doomed

My first day "on the job" (yesterday) was fine. I got up, showered, got dressed (including a bra! …which is the difference between pulling stuff on to not be naked, and actually getting dressed), combed my hair and put on the pretty earrings that a client gave me as a parting gift. Feeling fresh and ready I sat down with a cup of tea and opened up The Artists Way. I had attempted the course once before, years ago, but the morning pages exercise in the first week ground the machine to an ungraceful stop. I think I only lasted a few days. I don't do mornings very well, I never have, so I ended up just writing "f#ck I wish I was asleep" over and over. I gave up on the whole thing without getting very far through. (I think I identified that my creative block could be a nasty attitude problem).

This time I sat with my cup of tea and read the first chapter through, knowing (being older and wiser) that I don’t have to follow it word for word, I can choose to avoid the tasks that will stop me in my tracks, and cherish the ones that make me feel better. So I read the first chapter with enthusiasm and an open mind. I decided to skip the morning pages all together and jump straight to the artists date. I jotted down some phrases that gave me a spark, and was mindful of the fact that some will mean more to me now and others will be more appropriate at another time.

After this I wrote out a big colourful to-do list and headed out to stock up on art supplies. After lunch I researched portfolio sites and online stores and last night I constructed a sweet little card for my Mum's birthday then organised to take her on a Birthday "artists date" to the art gallery today.
(Note about the card: Mum loves children from the olden days. No scary chicken monster exploding from swollen abdomen here folks, no sir-ree!)

I didn't bake any cookies, or iron any undies, but I did make some tasty sandwiches for lunch.

So far, so good.

Hope your day went well also.

Oh, and Happy Birthday Mum.

resigned drummer

I tell you what, the internet makes you guys all seem deceptively close by, but when I'm dying for something to arrive in the mail I'm reminded that I'm actually at the very opposite end of a very large globe!

My 'resigned drummer' (original painted card by Troglodyte Mignon) finally arrived today!!!

Like a road-weary traveller who has travelled thousands and thousands of miles to get here, he looks sleepy and disheveled. And I adore him. He is delicate, pale, and more intricate than he looks on screen – having an original piece of artwork always reveals so much, and is therefore that much more special.

It is no secret how much I idolise the unique works of Troglodyte Mignon, they transport me into a freaky but sensitive world. These days I often find myself waiting to cross the street in a crowd of people, staring a person waiting on the other side, and in that moment they turn sketchy and washy and become one of her wonderful characters, and I wish I had her talent and could rush home to capture them.
Instead I have bought one of my very own, and I’ll keep him close by and wonder about his melancholy state.

You can get one too. They live here…
(I have my eye on “sleepy aunt”. But they’re rushing out the door, so if you want one, don’t hesitate.)

Thank-you Troglodyte Mignon!

a whole series of squelches

While I’m at it I also wanted to thank you all for your loveliness. I have honestly found so much strength and support from your great comments, I can’t thank-you enough.

One of the ones I’ve used as a mantra to get me to this point was a comment from sweet Chair:
“I think you need to listen to your gut, even when it squelches.”
hehehe, that one really suited me, because, well it's all been pretty squelchy really.

Up to this point I’ve just been concentrating on leaving work. Now that’s done (check!) I have to start thinking about what comes next.
Next on the list is… Oh GOD what’s next!?

First thing tomorrow I’ll make a big list and start at the top I guess.

It’s funny how my hard-line stance on no self-help malarky is crumbling, and I’ve been hungrily jotting down all those little proverbs; making Oprah (“You’re entitled to live your dream”) proud.

I always remember Penelope’s story of leaving her job, handing her boss a little card that said “Ships are safe in a harbour, but that’s not what ships are built for.”
I’m not at the stage of handing out cards, I’m still at the scribble on a post-it stage. So far I have two:

The traditional approach:
“Man cannot discover new oceans unless he has the courage to lose sight of the shore.” -Andre Gide

And my favourite so far (from my huge library of two) is:
“The world has the habit of making room for the man whose actions show that he knows where he is going.” -Napoleon Hill

The hitch is I don’t know where I’m going. First thing tomorrow I’ll start with a list.

exit

Feeling so anxious about my last day at work on Friday, I woke up at 5:30am and did what any nervous woman with no chocolate in the house does... manically scrubbed the bejeezus out of the bathtub!

By the time I got to work a few hours later I still felt a little manic, but mostly sad and so dizzy. I know I've winged about work from time to time, but honestly I've been really lucky to have such a great job, with such a nice boss, and a cool bunch of people to work with. The day went by in a blink and at 3pm we locked-up and headed out of the office to party! They took me to the Arthouse Hotel: a bar that doubles as an exhibition space, and we had an absolute ball.

It was a tough week for me last week; I've been at my job with my boss for 8 years. When you work in a small team in an open office you get to know each pretty very well. After all you spend more time with them than with your family or friends. So on Friday I was really quite sad. Once we left the office I felt better, and after a mojito or four I was really feeling quite good!

You know, the good part about leaving is that everyone is so nice to you. They are kind and thoughtful, they engage in meaningful conversation and share sweet sentiments. They all gave it their all to make my last night a great one, and they showered me in wonderful gifts! My boss, who never usually makes speeches at these types of things, made a really sweet speech saying that he would miss me immeasurably. It all meant an enormous amount to me.

To avoid feeling those feelings of sadness and loss, we threw a party at home the very next night with all our friends! Again showered in loveliness, but now it’s all died down and it’s time to face the music… and try to dance.

a change of heart

Sorry for the gory illo last week. But don't worry, I think seeing Esme may have changed my mind.

(but I'm still a few years off)

off to my last day at work

Raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens
Bright copper kettles and warm woolen mittens
Brown paper packages tied up with strings
These are a few of my favorite things

Cream colored ponies and crisp apple streudels
Doorbells and sleigh bells and schnitzel with noodles
Wild geese that fly with the moon on their wings
These are a few of my favorite things

Girls in white dresses with blue satin sashes
Snowflakes that stay on my nose and eyelashes
Silver white winters that melt into springs
These are a few of my favorite things

When the dog bites
When the bee stings
When I'm feeling sad
I simply remember my favorite things
And then I don't feel so bad