
The similarities in my mind were all reasons to prove it to be true:
1. Granda lived in Belfast and therefore had a very strong accent which I had great trouble understanding as a youngster. I’m not sure what accent Popeye has, but I couldn’t understand what he was saying either.
2. In his younger years Granda was in the Army and like most well worn army men, he has many tattoo’s on his arms – just like Popeye.
3. Granda had a boat. He loved his boat, and we received photo’s of him in his boat wearing a captains hat, just like Popeye's.
4. They both had a proud flock of white grey hair
5. They both smoked a pipe out the side of their mouth
Don’t quote me on this, but I’m pretty sure he would have liked spinach too. So to me it all added up to one thing… my Granda was in fact Popeye.
Mind you, my Granda didn’t share Popeye’s bad temper, and I never saw him whirl his arm up into a spin and recoil with a giant punch. He’d sit me on his lap and tell me stories about the tattoos on his arms (like a picture book). He insisted that the tattoo of a young pretty American Indian woman with long plaits and feathers in her hair was my Mum. I’d argue that my Mum had blonde hair, and he’d wink and say “Aye, but she dies it”.
He was quiet and dignified but had a wicked sense of humour and enough pride to sink a ship. He was ever friendly, so generous, and when I stayed with them a few years back while on holidays he spoilt me rotten. He cooked me up some fresh cockles that he’d gone out and collected that morning before I woke, and he drove me all over the place showing me various sights.While in the car driving around one day Granny inquired “Is this Tom Jones on the radio?”
“Aye Meta.” He replied, (that was my Granny’s name).
“What’s he singing? Sex Bomb???” (a little alarmed).
“Aye Meta, Sex Bomb” then he literally winked and nudged her. She chuckled. He could always turn my serious Granny into a fit of giggles.
This morning (last night on that side of the world) my Granda died.
It was two days until the anniversary of when my Granny died last year.
I'm glad I had opportunities to spend time with him and get to know him now I'm an adult. Now I know he’s not Popeye, he’s way cooler.














